Mind-Blowing Oral Sex

Whether you’re looking to please your lady or want to show your man a good time, brushing up on oral sex techniques is only going to make you a better lover.

The 69 oral sex position is where you and your partner to align yourselves on top of each other in opposite directions, giving you each prime access to each other’s genitals. Many couples find the dual pleasure incredibly erotic.

Usually, one partner lies on their back and the other lies atop them with their knees straddling the other person’s head. No matter your gender or anatomy, the 69 is a great oral sex position for women, plus those who are interested in blowjobs positions.

However, this position isn’t without its (solvable) downsides. “The 69 position is actually trash for many people,” Sweet says. “It can be very uncomfortable to hold the position, and it can be very distracting to both give and receive at the same time!”

Because of this, some couples enjoy this position by lying on their sides, which gives your neck a break. Or they do the 68, a variation where your partner lies on their back as you lie on your back on top of them with your crotch in their face. From that angle, you can tease your partner with controlled movements of your genitals through pressure, rhythm and depth.