So, you want to learn how to fuck a girl right… To send her into outer space with gushing orgasm after orgasm?
Good, let’s get started then shall we, because you’re about to learn the secret tricks, tips, techniques, and mindsets to give any woman the best orgasms of her life.
If you never had sex before then this guide is especially for you since we start with the basics.
But for the ‘experienced’ players, there are also some neat tips that will help you gain mastery in the bedroom and keep your girl coming back for more over and over again.
Protection and Preparation
There are a few things you need to prepare for before you make love with a woman. Firstly make sure you have protection close at hand. This means keeping a few condoms near to your bed. Condoms will stop STIs and prevent you from getting her pregnant.
You’ll also want to make your bedroom, or wherever you want to make love, as romantic as possible. For example, dim the lights, make sure it’s clean and tidy and smells nice. This is going to help get her turned on quicker and ultimately lead to great sex.
You won’t be able to fuck a woman properly if she isn’t turned on. This is one thing that so many guys get horribly wrong. They think you can just go straight in from kissing into intercourse. But wait… slow down a sec.
For women, sex is all about anticipation and sexual tension. If you go too quickly into penetration then all the tension is lost. She might as well have just used a dildo.
Sex is all about emotions, so use foreplay to get the woman in a sexual mood before making love to her. To be good at having sex, you must help the woman to get into a sexual mood using foreplay and arousal. You can read all about how to make her horny here.
Start by touching, kissing, and caressing all the parts of her body. You can also make it more playful with pillow fighting and play wrestling. As you get going, here are some ideas:
– Run your fingertips softly across her skin, especially on her most sensitive areas (lips, nipple, feet, clitoris)
– Blow softly into her ear
– Kiss and caress her neck
– Run your hands through her hair
– Vary pressure while kissing her, kissing softly at first then harder then softer again
– Run your fingertips up her thighs then back down to tease her
– Gently tease the vulva before entering to explore her clitoris and inner lips
– Run kisses along her body down to her vulva
– Perform an erotic massage
– Perform a vaginal massage
Ideally, you want to get to the point where she is so turned on that she is practically begging to be penetrated by you. Let go of the outcome of sex and just enjoy the process.
You’ll want to keep the lights dim, but still enough so that you can see what you’re doing. If it’s too bright she may feel self-conscious. Usually, it’s a better idea to strip off yourself first. Take your shirt off. Then take her shirt off. Bit by bit and slowly as the arousal continues to build.
Now slip your own pants off, now take hers off. Eventually, you’ll both be naked. If this all seems too quick for you then find out about dry humping first so that you can see what the sex will feel like without actually having sex.
Fingering and Oral
Before sex, most couples use their fingers or mouths to get the partner even more in the mood. So you might want to finger her first. Or you could go and eat her pussy out. These are very good ideas to try before building up to the big finale of penetrative sex.
After you’ve performed cunnilingus on her, she will be dripping wet and ready to be made love to by you. At this point, you need to put on a condom. Sometimes putting on a condom can interrupt the flow of arousal, but don’t worry, it needs to be done. Once you have put on the condom then go back to kissing her before going in.
Here’s a great position for fingering her, you might want to try it.
The best starter position is called the missionary position.
Get her to lie on her back. Lie on top of her and hold your penis with one hand. Rub the head of your penis against her vagina, as you feel the opening to her pussy then push inwards slowly.
Don’t push into her pussy too hard to start with as this could cause her discomfort. Move slowly but rhythmically back and forth or side to side.
Your muscles may get tired after some time in this position – this is perfectly normal – it just means that it’s time to change position.
Many guys and girls agree that doggy style is their favourite position. This means having sex with her from behind. This is a great position for fucking her strongly and powerfully and many women enjoy this the most. It’s also a great position if you want her to squirt during sex.
Other popular sex positions include cowgirl, the horny mantis, the lap dance, spoon (facing or from behind), and the amazon. If you and your partner aren’t sure what you like, be sure to switch it up frequently to find that sweet spot.
At some point, you’re going to want to ejaculate. Unfortunately for most guys, this means the end of the session for the woman even though she might want more.
If you feel like cumming but you don’t want to, just take your penis out of her and start fingering or licking her pussy again. This method will keep her turned on but will slow down your arousal so that you’re ready to go again soon.
For women, they usually like to have sex and enjoy the process for a longer time than most men. So if you want to fuck her properly then try and last for at least half an hour before cumming.
When you do ejaculate, you have a few options. 1) Continue having sex and come in the condom, or 2) Stop having sex and take the condom off so that you can come outside.
You may want to ask her for a blowjob or finish yourself off by wanking. Some girls like to have sperm ejaculated onto them.
Hormones are released after orgasm that causes bonding in humans. Girls love to be spooned after they have sex. That means lying side by side hugging.
Remember to take the condom off, tie it up and throw it away, you may also want to have a shower.
It’s not uncommon to make love to her two, three, or four or more times in a night, so have a little recovery and then you can go for it again.